18 Amazing summer sex tips by Rumer
Yes, summer is hot. Damn hot, and we love it! When the temperature is rising… so are our libidos! What is it about the summertime season that makes us all so sexy? Is it the sunshine? Warm weather? Vacation days? Outdoor events? Whatever the reason, sex in the summer is an appealing way to spend an evening… or morning… or afternoon… or all three if you’re up for it. To help get your groove on, of course we recommend plenty of organic lube and to play safe.
Make time for love. If you’re in a long-term relationship, or been putting sex on the backburner – Summer is the perfect time to bring that oh so sweet dish to the front. Make making love a priority.
Summer is sexy and if you know how to enjoy summer sex, you’ll be melting away in all the right ways! We’ve curated our list of top summer sex trends – we hope you experiment, and enjoy! We all know that sex is better with lube, and there’s no better lube than Rumer.
1. Indulgence is the new black
Spoil yourself. Sexy self love interludes, new sensual lingerie, scented oils and soft sheets. Smooth, silky skin and sweet moments of pleasure, from the innocence of inhaling your favourite bath salts to the perfect ache of orgasm, you deserve to revel in your senses. Create moments to lose yourself in sensation and let the world drift away.
2. Set the scene
Lights, camera – action! Maybe you’d like to film a private R18 action film, or possibly you prefer some sexy role play, getting into character off-camera. Dress up to surprise your partner with their fantasy role play character, or agree a scenario and bring your best hot, gaspy acting to the roles! If you’re flying solo create a sensual setting and let your imagination do the rest.
3. Organic sex products
You know we are passionate about only organic goodness on our skin – this summer is a great time to ensure you have a fresh stock of organic personal lubricant on hand for unexpected or ‘spur of the moment’ encounters.
Rumer's organic personal lubricant is perfect for sexy summer lovin, naturally. Made in New Zealand with botanical goodness for feel-good self-loving and sex. Plus it's certified organic by BioGro New Zealand so you know it is free from pesticides and animal testing. No toxins, no cruelty, just great lubricant.
4. Wellness and Grooming
After months of covering up in the cold, it’s time to trim, oil and polish that beautiful body ready for summer exposure and open air fun. Spending time on your self will boost your confidence and is a lovely way to show some TLC to your body and sexuality.
5. Sext & App flirtations
Sexting is a great way to put a toe in the water and cultivate some anticipation and excitement before, or between, meeting up in person. Be bold, and be smart – anything you send online or on text is one screenshot away from public notoriety – so remember, the most sexy lines are the ones you’ll never regret committing to the ether.
6. Classic sex toys
The best sex toys are streamlined, suit everyone, and can be used in a variety of ways.
7. Take it slow for added impact
Those sexy sensual Italians use the word Karezza (caress) for sex that focuses on the journey instead of the destination. Aim to make your love making last, and concentrate on spending as much time as possible in that elevated state of lust and arousal before orgasm.The grand finale will be 100% worth the wait.
8. Take a summer road trip
There’s never been a better time to explore this beautiful country and summer is the perfect time to visit stunning new places. Check in early and spend long sensual evenings making love at secluded getaway spots, or slip in a quickie along the way. Travelling solo? Pack your sex lube just in case you meet someone enticing.
9. Try something new
Summer time provides plenty of settings for novelty, fun and excitement including picnics, concerts, festivals and day trips. Experience something new together and let it translate between the sheets. Go crazy.
Indulge in some sexy natural organic fun with sex lube, light some incense and use an organic body oil for a sensual massage.
10. A sexy encounter with a stranger
We are big fans of safe consensual sex, with whoever you choose to get it on with! Meeting an enticing stranger and choosing to enjoy passionate no-strings sex can create summer memories that last a lifetime. Take along your personal lube to reduce the likelihood of condom failure.
11. Book a night in
Take time to create a special night and break the long term lover ‘quick bonk then roll over to sleep’ routine. Turn off the phones. Set the scene, put on great music. Cook a light tasty dinner. Approach your partner while they begin to wash the dishes. Start slow then go with the flow – you may end up between the sheets, or against the bench, but the build up will have been worth it.
12. Get steamy in the shower
On a hot summer day when all you want to do is lie in the shade, set the shower to cool and surprise your lover with a midday invitation. Bring your personal lubricant for slippery shower sensations. Cool off and heat things up all at the same time, with some cascading water and standing sex.
Set the shower to cool, call your partner and indulge in some sexy play under the spray. Detachable shower head? You know what to do. Get that water flowing over all the right places. Our recommendation? Grab a lube for long lasting slide-a-bility and sensation.
13. Get frisky at twilight
There’s a reason animals get active at twilight – it’s when the big cats come out! Your reason might be a lot less dangerous but it’s likely to get your heart racing just the same! As soon as the sun drops over the western ranges it’s the perfect temperature to touch skin to skin and rediscover your lover.
14. The sexiest cocktail is you
Just add ice and your lover’s favourite liqueur! Dip each block in the glass of fragrant alcohol and slowly slide it along each other’s skin. Let it leave a melting trail, slowly, slowly down your neck, chest, stomach, lower… You know, someone will need to lick that up!
15. Embrace the heat
Throw open a window or two and go at it. See how slippery and sweaty and sensual you can get in the summer heat. Why not have hot, hot sex!
16. Make waves
Ocean swims will never look the same. Up close and personal with your lover you can touch and kiss and slip and slide in all sorts of marvelous mutually titivating ways beneath the waves.
(Bear in mind that in water actual penetration gets a tricky as the water washes away natural lubrication; and sex can let water – and any bacteria – into the vagina, so you wont want to go all the way unless you’re in a super clean ocean and with a considerate lover.)
17. Minimise contact & keep cool
Sit your lover on a bench, or bend them lovingly over it, for easy access and minimal skin to skin heat. A strategically places fan to add that windblown photoshoot feel won’t go amiss!
18. Make your dreams come true
It’s not all nurse or maid outfits! What’s your fantasy? Do you dream of a quick encounter with a movie star, or a chance encounter in a shadowy forest? Do you want your lover to act demanding – while knowing you are totally safe? Or does being blindfolded while your lover whispers in your ear and touches you lightly in unexpected places drive you wild? Share your fantasy. Make it happen.
